Lyinginbedmon wrote:Or as I prefer to say, 9/10 problems are caused and/or solved by communication.
Correct.
So, so, correct.
The biggest thing is learning what people mean when they say something. Unsure of something? Clarify. Still don't get it? Break it down to it's base elements and clarify empathetically.
My girlfriend looks at the world ENTIRELY differently than I do. Like, I am perceptive guy, I am very understanding and empathetic with people and yet she used to just flat out stump me in how she thinks. Now? She still confuses me at times, but we trust and care for each other more than we ever have because we're open with each other.
Glad we all seem to agree with this on sex. Got a problem? Communicate. I personally can't really begin to describe how much of a relief it is to just be able to trust someone with well, everything, regardless of how selfish it might sound. I also couldn't recommend it highly enough.