The Big Relationship Thread

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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby ex-Lurker » 08 Dec 2013, 11:42

Aww, don't worry, I heard NNE is looking for a soul mate.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Elomin Sha » 08 Dec 2013, 12:01

I heard they can be a bit brisk.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby viscomica » 08 Dec 2013, 16:53

Jamfalcon wrote:I'm kind of in the same boat as Lying. The person I met up with last weekend and I have been emailing back and forth quite a lot, and saw each other again during the week. I think it went okay, but it didn't last very long this time. We went skating, and neither of us had been for years, so we were both sore pretty quick, and I was already feeling kind a bit under the weather. But she trusted me enough to drive her home (despite saying previously she had a policy of not taking rides from someone she'd known for less than a week), so I'm taking that as a good sign.

But now I haven't heard anything from her in the last three days, when we'd been emailing a multiple times a day before that. The worrier in me thinks that this is a sign of disinterest, but I don't get the sense she's someone who would just cut communication without saying anything. So now I'm just waiting around wondering what's going on, and trying not to be too pessimistic.

Okay, I guess it's not that similar to Lying's situation, but whatever.


It sounds like you had a great second date if she obviously trusted you to ride her home. Don't get too pessimistic, she'll contact you soon enough :)
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Laurnil » 08 Dec 2013, 17:04

Ugh...Why do I live around so many jerks?
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby viscomica » 08 Dec 2013, 17:09

Elaborate
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Postby Elomin Sha » 08 Dec 2013, 17:20

I'm pretty much decided that I'm not going to try for anything any more.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Lurkon » 08 Dec 2013, 18:21

I need to figure out how to meet people. I suppose it will have to wait until I get back to school in January, though.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Jamfalcon » 08 Dec 2013, 22:16

viscomica wrote:It sounds like you had a great second date if she obviously trusted you to ride her home. Don't get too pessimistic, she'll contact you soon enough :)

Thanks for the encouragement. I ended up sending her a quick email to check if everything's okay, and it turns out she's just feeling under the weather. Which is unfortunate, of course, but I am a little relieved at the same time. :?
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby RedNightmare » 09 Dec 2013, 07:41

Elomin Sha wrote:I'm pretty much decided that I'm not going to try for anything any more.

That sounds a bit harsh. Maybe not try to hard for a while, but never again is a shame. Take it slow for a while, regroup and try again when you feel like it.

I mean, what if you could acquire the biggest bag in the world with a little effort? Wouldn't want to miss that chance, right? ;)
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Elomin Sha » 09 Dec 2013, 07:50

Upon reflection on certain things (nothing recent) with personal and work life it is probably best nothing happens at all with me.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Master Gunner » 09 Dec 2013, 08:15

*Hugs Elomin*
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Elomin Sha » 09 Dec 2013, 08:44

I'm not happy. I'm not sad. I'm not depressed. I just live.


No ill meant: with everything to happen with me, bullying, divorce, alone; I have never needed hugs or sympathy.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby JustAName » 09 Dec 2013, 09:14

But have you ever wanted them?
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Elomin Sha » 09 Dec 2013, 09:22

Cannot remember. As a kid I was never around anyone or sought by others when things were bad for me to see if I was okay.
I found things to do by myself to stay occupied instead.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby ex-Lurker » 09 Dec 2013, 10:14

There's nothing inherently wrong with not wanting hugs. I personally don't like them, I just prefer to interact with people without physical contact.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby viscomica » 09 Dec 2013, 12:11

I'm always wanting hugs, hugging or getting hugged. I'm just a normal panda, I guess :)
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Bebop Man » 09 Dec 2013, 12:13

D'awwww.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby viscomica » 09 Dec 2013, 12:16

Bebop Man wrote:D'awwww.


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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby PlasmaCow » 09 Dec 2013, 14:57

I am about to receive a wedding invitation from an old friend (for sometime in March I believe). I have no idea if my invite will say "+1" or not and frankly if it does there remains literally no one in the frame to be that. =/

On the subject of hugs, I like them a lot (giving and receiving), although I am someone that prefers to treat everyone's personal space with respect rather than being touchy-feely (at any particular level rather than the extreme), which in turn makes them mean more to me I guess.

I do generally feel I'm in a minority with this these days, in fact I get the impression of myself perhaps being perceived as withdrawn in that manner. I suppose it's part of my methodical thinking that gives me a cautious approach to social interactions. Alcohol is a great lubricant for this, even if I'm not the one drinking it I feel more comfortable letting more of my spontaneity out.

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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Lyinginbedmon » 09 Dec 2013, 16:45

I adore hugs, there's few things I'd rather do more than spend all day hugging someone dear.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Kortanios » 09 Dec 2013, 17:26

I am a huge hugging fan. I really like hugging and getting hugged... Huggs everywhere! Also, bear hugs...
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Laurnil » 11 Dec 2013, 10:45

viscomica wrote:Elaborate


They all just want to see my tits.

I've been on dating sites and I have numerous dating apps and they all ask the same thing: can I have a pic of your tits.

The only nice guy I met and went out with was a virgin, who's virginity I took after dating him for like 2 1/2 months and after having sex with him for a month, he dumped me with a vague excuse. I got the impression I was only meant as a starter girlfriend.

So, yea...jerks.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Elomin Sha » 11 Dec 2013, 10:57

Tosspot.

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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Lyinginbedmon » 11 Dec 2013, 11:18

But meanwhile I am also on dating sites and, whilst I do appreciate a pleasant view of mammaries, consider it far from my primary dating objective.
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Re: The Big Relationship Thread

Postby Laurnil » 11 Dec 2013, 11:25

Elomin Sha wrote:Tosspot.

The go to get out gaol free card is: Look behind you, a three-headed monkey.



blah blah blah, jibberish.
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