The Big Relationship Thread

[Elomin Sha]

Biting the bullet, right...now.

[Darkobra]

Gently nibble the bullet! Don't bite too hard!

[Elomin Sha]

Cowering under a rug right now.

[Merrymaker_Mortalis]

Whose rug?

[Elomin Sha]

Mine.

[Darkobra]

NIBBLE THE BULLET!

[Elomin Sha]

Currently I am still waiting for a reply, it was through a PM/email combination for the art, they seem to be away. I'm going to be up for quite a while tonight.

[viscomica]

Biting the bullet, right...now.

Cryptic.

[Elomin Sha]

Not quite, I finished the artworks then built up the courage to send them and a message to the girl I like.

[viscomica]

Awwwwwwwww!! Kudos, Elomin!

[Elomin Sha]

Thanks. Some of them are really cute.

[Telaril]

Thanks for the kind words, all. I knew people HERE would say they liked intelligence, but I have to hear it said out loud occasionally. Southern California is killing me.

I like guys like I like my RPG characters: A balance of INT, WIS, and CHA with STR as their dump stat. (Any game where everyone takes CHA as a dump stat is a game I will not enjoy. Right now I'm in a Star Wars RPG playing an Empire-aligned cross between Margaery Tyrell and Princess Leia. I once talked a gang of thugs who jumped us into paying the owner of the bar the fight took place in for damages.)

My main problem isn't that I'm smart, if I'm honest (that just comes up because I know that SHOULDN'T be a problem). It's that I don't know how to play the game of thrones, and I'm not traditionally pretty - I'm 5'2, a size 14, and I still don't know how to do makeup properly. I try, but it's very little use. In the northeast, I was better at making friends... here I just don't fit in at all, and I'm not included in the cliques that might bring me naturally in contact with other people of my age with similar interests.

Sigh.

[Elomin Sha]

Time to sleep.

[Bebop Man]

To die, to sleep; to sleep, perchance to dream.

[Merrymaker_Mortalis]

I'm not a relationship expert, and I don't think that title even exists and if so shouldn't exist.

But I personally am indifferent regarding make up on any gender, though more than a slight amount on men I find very off putting. I'm not sure if that is insightful or what ever.

[Elomin Sha]

No dreams.

[Prospero101]

Ay, there's the rub, for in that sleep of death, what dreams may come when we have shuffled off this mortal coil must give us pause. There's the respect that makes calamity of so long life. For those who would bear the wips and scorns of time...eh...ahem.

I, er, read a lot of Shakespeare.

[Elomin Sha]

Well, my timing on important matters sucks. Stayed up really late in the hop to ask but went offline and missed them by 2 minutes. They appear to be really busy with work and other things so I probably asked at the wrong time and maybe shouldn't check next time I see them online.

[Hepheastus]

Best of luck to you Elomin

[Elomin Sha]

There is no luck, only Zuul...and me hoping for too much. Thanks.

[Elomin Sha]

Had a response. Turned out the original one got lost. She liked the art a lot but doesn't go near long distance but would like to talk to me more.

Thanks all for the support.

[Darkobra]

It'll be easier next woman you meet and now a burden has been lifted from you. And she likes you enough to keep talking!

[Elomin Sha]

Can't ask for more than just being able to talk more.

[cuddlyblade]

Well strictly speaking you could ask for more. Weather you should ask for more or not is an entirely different story.

[Elomin Sha]

I cannot ask for more, it would be wrong to even think/attempt to do so. I would like to be happy and in turn make another person happy but I cannot make them change their opinion of what they want with their life. I can hope but not expect it to happen.