metcarfre wrote:Question; I have some people, an older couple I tangentially know, who owned a flower farm (growing dahlias). Occasionally, they would have weddings there. A same-sex couple approached them about having their wedding there (same-sex marriage having been legal in BC for a while now), and were refused (by the older couple that owned the business). The same-sex couple sued them such that they had to give up the business. Is that cool? I don't know.
My personal view?
The farm owners were offering their fields for weddings as a business service; I assume they were charging for the use, and not just doing them for friends or relatives or something. You pointed out that same-sex marriage is legal in BC. So, they were discriminating against the couple. Which I presume is illegal in Canada. Think about this: if it had been an interracial couple, or an Irish couple, or a handicap couple (who were in wheelchairs) and they had been refused a wedding, would that be OK? No. Would you feel sorry for them if, instead of use of a field of flowers, they were preventing the couple from, say, having their hair cut at their barbershop? Would you feel sorry for them if they had refused the wedding to a couple on the grounds that they were black?
And I'm guessing the didn't sue to force them to give up the business; they sued because what they were doing was illegal. If a side effect was that the farm-owners couldn't pay for the lawyers and thus had to give up their business, that is unfortunate. But then, why would they choose to discriminate in the first place?
Unfortunately, the way the legal system is set up, it often seems that the only way to bring a legal grievance against a private organization is through lawsuit. It's unfortunate, but that's the way it is.
But, no, if you're offering a business service, you don't have a right to discriminate against people on any grounds. If they don't want gay couples to get married there, don't offer your fields for use for marriages.