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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Gordon Fearman » 18 Sep 2010, 10:23

Arius wrote:But seriously, ignore all the people telling you to beat around the bush. Dive headfirst into that bush and ask her out. The worst that can happen is she says no.* Then you just find a new bush.

DOUBLE ENTENDRE!

* The actual worst that could happen is she's a psychotic killer and kills you and your entire family after torturing you for years.

I agree with this. Stop trying to get advice from anyone here who is trying to interpret what she means because I think we've proven so far that we all have no idea what she's thinking. Girls and guys. The only thing we can give advice on is if you should or should not ask out a coworker. I've already said no. Other people have said yes. Believe what you wanna believe. Reach for the stars. Stuff. Speech breaking down.

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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Murakami » 18 Sep 2010, 13:54

Thunderbird, GO!
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Gordon Fearman » 18 Sep 2010, 17:23

The email program?
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Murakami » 19 Sep 2010, 01:37

No, the thing with the dolls on TV. Never watched that.. so maybe I'm doing it wrong.
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Wraith » 20 Sep 2010, 08:19

Go for it dude. Me and Siobhan both had rules about long distance relationships.




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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 21 Sep 2010, 03:21

Lol, ok, but another (probably) stupid question.
She knows im going to the con, and I offered her for, like a third time and all as she has mentioned interest, but she has..to..ask.. her father. That somewhat tics me but its not my business, though i did mention the fact shes 21 and all.

My plan is to ask her, but to mention going in oct, early, like right after payday to grab some grub at a local (LOL local) 3.5ish restaurant. Should I wait to sooner or be like "wanna grab some grub two weeks?" I know it may sound stupid but.. ya im somewhat iffy on what to do
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 19 Oct 2010, 14:04

Bump!

So today I asked her finally. I know! So, I decided to leverage my birthday to let me take her out (i had to pay for my bday dinner last year, at least this year will be better). So we agreed to saturday, and we'll figure out when later. I asked for lunch or dinner so I'll be awake for it. She was cool with it all. Afterward we're going back to her place to play Yu-Gi-Oh. No theres no innuendos there <_<

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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby TheRocket » 19 Oct 2010, 14:13

Wraith wrote:Go for it dude. Me and Siobhan both had rules about long distance relationships.




Fuck the rules.



I had 3 rules actually.

1. Never date off the internet
2. Never date an American
3. Never date long distance


.....fml.


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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 19 Oct 2010, 14:25

LOL! you broke three for him. how..sweet?
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Lyinginbedmon » 19 Oct 2010, 14:44

I'd never dated online and Mimm'd had some bad experiences with online dating before. Guess I managed to charm her :P

Well y'know what they say, rules were made to be broken.
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

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Let us hope this one works out
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby iamafish » 19 Oct 2010, 16:32

Lyinginbedmon wrote:I'd never dated online and Mimm'd had some bad experiences with online dating before. Guess I managed to charm her :P

Well y'know what they say, rules were made to be broken.


it's why I don't have rules, I just go with what feels right. It's worked so far in my limited experience.

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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Darkobra » 19 Oct 2010, 16:49

gcninja wrote:But...Rule number one... THERE ARE RULES FOR A REASON


To be BROKEN! Don't let this one go just because you over complicate things. Done it MAAAAAAANY times. Still doing it with current relationship. But she made me promise I talk to her about it rather than just bottle it all up. And so far, it's working great.

So do that. Talk to HER about it. Ask her out.

"Wanna grab a meal and a movie?"
"Like a date?"
"If you'd like."
"Sure!"

Done.
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 19 Oct 2010, 23:26

well the only thing I could do was a meal, but her fathers going to be outta state for a few days so were going to get some food and go play come cards back her place. I'd love to take her to a movie but the nearest one is 80ish miles away.
So ya, saturday is the day hope to make it fun
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby JustAName » 19 Oct 2010, 23:40

Bring a movie to her? Then you get to cuddle on the couch! *eyebrow waggle*
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 19 Oct 2010, 23:43

See that has crossed my mind. But knowing us, it'd be more an anime :D than movie, she has seen most of mine. hmm... Maybe the cowboy bebop movie
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby JustAName » 20 Oct 2010, 00:16

THAT is a good movie! Do it! Do it up!
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Darkobra » 20 Oct 2010, 01:39

O.o Agreed. Do it. My girlfriend is also an anime nut. Now I MUST have this movie.
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 20 Oct 2010, 01:48

Well, shes into anime, just not as deep as I am and, not that I want to change her, but I know she wants to go deeper and to anime conventions. So I want to show her more
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Darkobra » 23 Oct 2010, 07:43

It's Saturday! Bring back the gossip tomorrow!
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Murakami » 23 Oct 2010, 10:20

O, hey, this is back. Interesting. I hope it all goes well!
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 23 Oct 2010, 11:55

Lol, maybe tonight I'll be able to update. But its cloudy and rainy off and on. :(
Hope I can still take her. We are walking so ya.. Hopefully I can bring over and talk her into us watching the Cowboy Bebop movie.
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby Murakami » 23 Oct 2010, 13:11

umbrella? ella? ella? èh? èh? èh?
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby gcninja » 23 Oct 2010, 20:57

It went.. well
I went a bit dressed up but came prepared with a trigun shirt under my button up one. we headed out. got there at a good time and I got her chair out for her. She mentioned a couple times that people think were on a date, I merely shrugged it off. After ward we headed back to her place and i beat her at yugioh, she beat me at bakugan and pokemon. We had fun. nothing big to report.

The general "signs" I guess would be when we were sitting on the couch she repeatedly kicked me when i was winning or made a joke and laughed it off. The odd part that kinda sits in my head was that at the end, I decided to head off as she said she was tired and it was like 9:20 (I got to her place at 530) when i stepped out and said thanks for the fun night she sorta sounded hurried in the "yep" tone and then we bumped fists and I left.
(note all this was done as her fathers outta town, perfect timing)
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Re: Question for the dating oriented

Postby JustAName » 23 Oct 2010, 21:04

Hrm... Her mentioning that people thought you were on a date meant she wanted to know if you were or not in your mind, I think. Well, that's how I'd bring it up if I wanted to know >.> The kicking thing is a plus because it means she's comfortable enough with you to physically assault you (no, it really is a plus, trust me :P). I dunno about the last part.
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