The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

[Laurnil]

Just avoid the things that got the old sex thread shut down.

[Bebop Man]

Hello, as my first post in the sex thread I gotta ask.

What exactly are we aloud to talk about per say?

Pretty much anything so far.

[Wolfwood723]

Just avoid the things that got the old sex thread shut down.

Despite having an account since 09 I've not spent a lot of time on the forums so I have no clue what the first sex thread was about either. Hard to know what I'm avoiding.

[Duckay]

Basically, there's not really an upper limit to explicit/graphic material, but do follow the forum rules (in a nutshell, it's not the topic, it's showing respect to other forum goers).

[Laurnil]

Yea....so TITTIES, PUSSY, COCK, AND ASS!

[Wolfwood723]

Ok well where to begin. Basically I think I might be bisexual but how do I know that its not just a faze? Like general curiosity or actual dual attraction.

[Laurnil]

Well, what makes you think you're bisexual?

[Duckay]

On which subject, I was spending some time with a friend's friends the other day, and we got to talking about fake orgasms - percentage of orgasms faked, the reasons why you fake them, and so on.

I'm more or less of the mind that it's almost always more appropriate to say "sorry, this just isn't working" than to pretend (especially if your body or mind has just gone "no" rather than your partner doing something wrong). Others said that it's easier and doesn't hurt feelings.

What says the sex thread?

ETA: Sorry, took me ages to type that and I didn't see your post. Put a pause in my post for the minute!

[Wolfwood723]

Well idk how graphic we're aloud to be so I'll keep it simple. I find myself more attracted to other guys, while still very much attracted to girls. And through erotica/porn/dreams I find myself wondering more and more about a particular male anatomy.


Edit, was thinking this post out and then saw the last few. So I guess no reason to keep it clean.

I am as best I can describe, cock curious. Just something about it has been captivating me.

[Duckay]

Well, my first question would be, do you feel the urge to explore that, or just a bit of a curiosity?

[Wolfwood723]

Well, my first question would be, do you feel the urge to explore that, or just a bit of a curiosity?

At first no, but its been building over time to the point that now its a resounding yes.

But without having never tried it, I don't know if its just taboo fantasy or real feelings.

[Laurnil]

Wolfwood, you can get as graphic as you want. Do you fantasize about cocks? about giving oral to a guy? about penetrating a guy or having a guy penetrate you? Or, do you simply admire men as attractive? Does the idea of sex with a man turn you on? Is this just a fantasy or would you like to act on this desire?

Duckay, I have faked a orgasm to get out of sex with a random stranger. Yea...so my sex with random stranger days wasn't so smart and it was mostly cause I didn't want to cause this person to be angry because I didn't know how he would react. But, generally, faking orgasms is bad. How hard is it to say, "Move there" or "stick your fingers in me"? I have had men break up with me, though, because I knew too much about my own anatomy. However, eff them. My sexual skills are great and they suck for not being able to handle my self love.

[Duckay]

Are you in a position where you could reasonably try it? (Sorry, I'm not very good at remembering things about people so I don't know if you've said this before.)

[Master Gunner]

Be as graphic as you wish. People have gotten...quite detailed in the past.

I'm rather far from an expert, but I would say that if you think it's something that interests you, then you should explore it some more. Figure out the whats and the whys about your interests.
Remember, human sexuality is fluid, and only fits into nice little boxes for the luckiest of us. Don't hold yourself to a label and think you should be a certain way just because it's "somewhat close" to how you feel. Explore your sexuality, but remember that it's yours.


RE: Duckay - while to an extent I can understand not wanting to hurt your partners' feelings, it's always struck me that far better sex for both parties would arise from a little communication.

[Wolfwood723]

To Duckay, relationship wise my girlfriend was surprisingly cool with it when we talked and expressed interest in watching.

To Laurnil, Yes I fantasize, about both giving and receiving oral and penetration. I also see men as attractive more and more. I think a lot of guys would look at say Alexander Skarsgard "Damn he is fine." but I was at the bank on Friday and couln't get over how hot the male teller was.

[Laurnil]

Well, the relationship with a woman does make it complicated. Some people are open, but make sure she isn't just going along with it to make you happy because that can cause all sorts of drama and a lot of hurt feelings. But, if you both are very much okay with it, then I would say you need to explore your feelings.

[Duckay]

How hard is it to say, "Move there" or "stick your fingers in me"? I have had men break up with me, though, because I knew too much about my own anatomy. However, eff them. My sexual skills are great and they suck for not being able to handle my self love.

RE: Duckay - while to an extent I can understand not wanting to hurt your partners' feelings, it's always struck me that far better sex for both parties would arise from a little communication.

I understand that quite a lot. Whether it's "no, hang on, do it like this" or "that feels good but my brain is a million miles away" (I know that sounds like a copout but I dunno, in my experience when certain things are on your mind it's just no good), I'd rather be up-front. In most situations, anyway. I'm sure there's a couple of fringe cases where you might want to let it go for the moment and either write it off or resolve it later.

To Duckay, relationship wise my girlfriend was surprisingly cool with it when we talked and expressed interest in watching.

To Laurnil, Yes I fantasize, about both giving and receiving oral and penetration. I also see men as attractive more and more. I think a lot of guys would look at say Alexander Skarsgard "Damn he is fine." but I was at the bank on Friday and couln't get over how hot the male teller was.

No one else can tell you for sure what this means for you, but I think Master Gunner got it closest. Explore it some more, but don't get hung up on labels. I would second that advice; think about some way that you can explore it. That doesn't have to be going right to seeking out a male sexual partner (although it could be).

[Wolfwood723]

Well, the relationship with a woman does make it complicated. Some people are open, but make sure she isn't just going along with it to make you happy because that can cause all sorts of drama and a lot of hurt feelings. But, if you both are very much okay with it, then I would say you need to explore your feelings.

We've been together for six years so I believe her when she says she is more than ok with me exploring myself. The only rule she laid down was no other woman which is fine by me. Where and how to explore would be the next thing to figure out. I mean outside of Craigslist(not gonna happen) and gay bars, I haven't a clue.

[Wolfwood723]

No one else can tell you for sure what this means for you, but I think Master Gunner got it closest. Explore it some more, but don't get hung up on labels. I would second that advice; think about some way that you can explore it. That doesn't have to be going right to seeking out a male sexual partner (although it could be).

Well I have pretty much explored as much as I could without another male short of my girlfriend pegging me.

[Laurnil]

Isn't that always the problem? Finding some one to have sex with.

[Wolfwood723]

Tell me about it. I'm kinda hopping that finding a guy is easier that a girl but idk yet.

[Avistew]

I've never faked an orgasm and I don't see the point. So I don't really get it when people say they have. I mean, if you feel like doing it, sure, I don't care, but I find it difficult to understand what you're getting out of it. Plus, I'm too honest. I can't lie, especially not about something like that. I would feel way too guilty about it.

[MinniChi]

I think the only time I have ever 'faked' an orgasm was for chuckles with a group of friends outside of a sexual encounter.

If I'm that uninterested in sex that my other half can't get me to enjoy it, then I'm about 2 minutes away from falling asleep. And yes, apparently I have fallen asleep a few times during intercourse. Anyone else do that?

[Duckay]

I fall asleep very quickly and easily sometimes. Never during intercourse, but with my track record, I'm sure it's only a matter of time.

[Bebop Man]

DURING intercourse? No. Immediately after, yes.