The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby empath » 14 Nov 2013, 15:08

Okay then - now might be a good time to pop it back in for a while. ;)

But hey; Mother Nature loves diversity; seems like no two people end up taking exactly the same path between here and there, not even identical twins. Ain't nothing wrong with it.
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Bebop Man » 14 Nov 2013, 15:29

Anybody read the newstory about the bride who "accidentally" slept with the best man on her wedding night?
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Postby Elomin Sha » 14 Nov 2013, 15:31

Nope.
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Bebop Man » 14 Nov 2013, 15:38

How about the casting of Fifty Shades of Grey?
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Postby Elomin Sha » 14 Nov 2013, 15:40

I don't watch dude flicks.
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Bebop Man » 14 Nov 2013, 15:44

If we're going to catalogue movies using the fallacious binary sexual paradigm I'd say that's a chick flick.
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Postby Laurnil » 14 Nov 2013, 15:56

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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Avistew » 15 Nov 2013, 04:39

The masturbation comments are interesting. I'm the opposite of a few of you: I can ONLY come if I'm using only my hand. Vibrators (or every other toys I've ever used) only hurt me. Fingers inside of me also hurt me, but not penises, so I have no clue what's up with that.

I've had friends who told me they never climaxed until well into their twenties. Others did a bit sooner, but they had been sexually active for a while. As long as you're enjoying yourself, I wouldn't sweat it.
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Postby Elomin Sha » 15 Nov 2013, 04:59

Avistew wrote:Vibrators (or every other toys I've ever used) only hurt me.

Isn't a tabbing motion what the sex act is anyway?

I'm getting a little confused on this not climaxing thing people are talking about. How come some people aren't reaching it? Isn't it just that big burst of pleasure you're supposed to get?
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Drecon » 15 Nov 2013, 06:45

It's very common for women not be able to reach climax. Their bodies are just set up a bit differently and that means it doesn't just always happen. Sometimes it's something you can learn, with time and practice, sometimes it just isn't something your body does. And sometimes you just meet the right person that somehow just knows how to do stuff...

Luckily, things can still be great, even without it.

(all of this is of course not from personal experience, but just second-hand knowledge, you know, with me being male and all)
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Postby Elomin Sha » 15 Nov 2013, 07:32

No one wants personal experience with me.
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Postby viscomica » 15 Nov 2013, 10:10

Bebop Man wrote:If we're going to catalogue movies using the fallacious binary sexual paradigm I'd say that's a chick flick.


I've encountered a woman who read the whole series yet "didn't like it" Too late to save face, too late...!
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Postby Mowinckel » 15 Nov 2013, 16:23

It takes points away in my book when you do not stand by what you like...
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Postby Elomin Sha » 17 Nov 2013, 01:48

Urgh. Limerence. Go away.
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Postby Laurnil » 20 Nov 2013, 12:33

Just popping in to share a link. Interesting read, but not a lot of sourcing: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking ... ign=Buffer
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Postby JustAName » 20 Nov 2013, 12:38

Laurnil, you said you got a reduction, right? How did that go? Did it leave any visible scarring? Were you happy with it after?
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Postby Elomin Sha » 20 Nov 2013, 12:58

I have some loose wires. They keep shorting out.
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Postby Laurnil » 21 Nov 2013, 09:45

Fayili wrote:Laurnil, you said you got a reduction, right? How did that go? Did it leave any visible scarring? Were you happy with it after?


Yes, I was not happy that they couldn't go any smaller, but otherwise it made my life sooooooooo much better. I went from a J cup to a D cup...I wanted a C. It did leave scars and there is about a month recovery. There is a cream you can put on the scars to reduce them, but 10 years later, I still have some scars, but only ones that I notice. Men don't see to have any problem and I'm told my breasts are glorious things to behold. So, scars aren't that big of a deal in comparison to how much better I feel about my body and how more comfortable I feel just moving day to day. It is a literal weight off your back. I want another reduction!

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Postby Laurnil » 21 Nov 2013, 09:48

Drecon wrote:It's very common for women not be able to reach climax. Their bodies are just set up a bit differently and that means it doesn't just always happen. Sometimes it's something you can learn, with time and practice, sometimes it just isn't something your body does. And sometimes you just meet the right person that somehow just knows how to do stuff...

Luckily, things can still be great, even without it.

(all of this is of course not from personal experience, but just second-hand knowledge, you know, with me being male and all)


You know, I think it is only difficult because no one has taken as much time as our society has to finding out how the female orgasm works as opposed to the male orgasm. The male orgasm is needed for procreation. However, there were times in man's history when the female orgasm was thought to be required for procreation....those were good times for us women. But, also bad because if a child came from rape, she was basically blamed for the rape.
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Avistew » 21 Nov 2013, 10:17

I think it's also that there is more variety is how women reach climax than men. Sure, men have different tastes and things they like or don't like, but the basics are the same. Women? Not so much. You could have two women whose things they love and need to climax and things they hate and can't climax with are each other's opposite.

About your link, I've heard of something called "your brain on porn". Apparently, there have been lots of studies that porn can indeed rewire men's (and I assume women's) brains and change their tastes, what arouses them, etc. For instance, the presence or absence of hairs. The presence of hairs used to be a turn on for the majority of the population, but because there is none in porn, it has become a turn off for many people.

Not saying that they look at porn and then decide they'll ask women to shave or wax. No, I mean that because of the lack of variety of porn, their brains rewire to be turned on by the lack of hairs, so that a non-bald appearance is different enough from what they're used to that it might not even arouse them.

As a result, only men who really like hairs to begin with and search for porn that contains it are at a similar level of arousal as men were a couple generations ago when faces with unshaved women.

More disturbingly, a lot of men have reported seeing a picture of a naked child and becoming aroused by the bald genitals, despite not being attracted to children. (I'm talking about people who got aroused accidentally, and so grossed out by it they sought immediate help. Thankfully their brains can be retrained the other way around. This is different from pedophilia, which cannot be "cure" or made to disappear.)

Thankfully this is rarer, but it's creepy, especially since for most men, it happened when they were giving their daughter a bath or something equally "I really don't want to get aroused right now"

How brains can adapt is a pretty amazing thing though. I've read tons of stuff about it (most of which had nothing to do with sex and/or porn) and it's clear that we have discovered the brain to be way less "static" than we used to think, and way more susceptible to be brainwashed, which is scary, but also good for people to want to retrain their brains to a positive purpose.
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Postby Elomin Sha » 21 Nov 2013, 10:55

I like buying things for people that's my way of compensating for uselessness.

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Postby Keab42 » 21 Nov 2013, 13:01

Hey Elomin, I know I tease you sometimes, but if you ever want somebody to talk to, I'm a good listener and I'm usually about online.
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Postby Elomin Sha » 21 Nov 2013, 13:04

Thanks for the offer. I do talk to a couple of people if I need to but only when needed. Not all problems need to be heard. I have more fun making fun of myself for it as a coping method (works most times). Interventions work too. Sometimes I have to be dragged kicking to actually do something.
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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby viscomica » 21 Nov 2013, 13:21

Laurnil wrote:
Drecon wrote:It's very common for women not be able to reach climax. Their bodies are just set up a bit differently and that means it doesn't just always happen. Sometimes it's something you can learn, with time and practice, sometimes it just isn't something your body does. And sometimes you just meet the right person that somehow just knows how to do stuff...

Luckily, things can still be great, even without it.

(all of this is of course not from personal experience, but just second-hand knowledge, you know, with me being male and all)


You know, I think it is only difficult because no one has taken as much time as our society has to finding out how the female orgasm works as opposed to the male orgasm. The male orgasm is needed for procreation. However, there were times in man's history when the female orgasm was thought to be required for procreation....those were good times for us women. But, also bad because if a child came from rape, she was basically blamed for the rape.


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Re: The Sex Thread 2: Because Two Hands Are Better Than One

Postby Laurnil » 21 Nov 2013, 19:09

Elomin, just send me a message, shug. I can helps!....maybe not right exactly now since I'm sooooo drunk
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