Re: The voxlunch stream shelter thread
Posted: 12 Nov 2016, 19:47
I'm not going to say any more than this, I'm a quiet person by nature. Due to people being so.. aggressive with me when I was young, no friends, etc. Not the point. Also, didn't read the whole thing, I'm kind of dylexic, I skim things, it's a problem, don't worry about it, but apologies if I'm missing things.
Firstly, this thing that's going on, neither side is going to win. It benefits no one, no one is going to change their minds, especially not certain people that appear to be in this thread. They want you to keep arguing with them, don't let them have that win. Changing your mind is something you arrive at by yourself 99.999% of the time and not because someone argued their point at you. At least, in my experience. This is why whenever I realize I'm in an argument, I quite often just abandon it immediately, as it's a waste of my time.
Secondly...
You don't have to agree, condone, endorse, support, comment, you don't have to ANYTHING what we're doing. Let people enjoy things. There are a TON of things I don't agree with, but you know what I don't do? I don't tell people I don't agree with those things, I don't say, "hey... HEY stop doing things that help you because I don't like 'em.. or they wouldn't have helped me" Because.. what do I care what other people are doing? In the broad strokes, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, go for it, whatever makes you happy.
You can't apply your experiences to others and have it work the exact same for them as it does for you. Human beings don't work that way. I'm probably messed up for life because people thought they could do that exact thing to me, so it irks me. Regardless, this post, is a monologue, I'm not responding to anything. Just gonna leave it here, and go back to doing what I can to help myself and others. You're free to join. You're free to not. You're free to "argue" with this, but I won't indulge you, I said what I needed to and I'm out.
Firstly, this thing that's going on, neither side is going to win. It benefits no one, no one is going to change their minds, especially not certain people that appear to be in this thread. They want you to keep arguing with them, don't let them have that win. Changing your mind is something you arrive at by yourself 99.999% of the time and not because someone argued their point at you. At least, in my experience. This is why whenever I realize I'm in an argument, I quite often just abandon it immediately, as it's a waste of my time.
Secondly...
You don't have to agree, condone, endorse, support, comment, you don't have to ANYTHING what we're doing. Let people enjoy things. There are a TON of things I don't agree with, but you know what I don't do? I don't tell people I don't agree with those things, I don't say, "hey... HEY stop doing things that help you because I don't like 'em.. or they wouldn't have helped me" Because.. what do I care what other people are doing? In the broad strokes, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, go for it, whatever makes you happy.
You can't apply your experiences to others and have it work the exact same for them as it does for you. Human beings don't work that way. I'm probably messed up for life because people thought they could do that exact thing to me, so it irks me. Regardless, this post, is a monologue, I'm not responding to anything. Just gonna leave it here, and go back to doing what I can to help myself and others. You're free to join. You're free to not. You're free to "argue" with this, but I won't indulge you, I said what I needed to and I'm out.